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How Generous is Too Generous

November 20th, 2009 at 12:42 pm

Or - The Great Race, Freecycling. I couldn't decide which title I liked better. I like to use our local freecycle to get rid of things I don't want/need anymore. But this has reached a new high, or low, for me anyway. About a year ago, there was a flurry of posts complaining about "takers" selling items thay were getting off the freecycyle. On ebay, in garage sales, whatever. Surprise, surprise. But not the principle behind freecycling, of course. Then, in the Spring, the new big controversy was takers who apparently sit on their computer all day long, to be the first to reply to every offer. The advice was to wait for a day or two, go thru all of the replies, and choose who you want to respond to. OK, just not real speedy, which is sometimes desired. Now I have discovered a new glitch, the takers want instructions! A short time ago, I offered some old jeans for sewing or crafting. I didn't get many replies, but the next day I started down the list. The first asker didn't want to drive this far, no problem. The next one emails me back, and says (I swear)..."what should I do with them?" I thought that I must have misread, and got DD#3 in to look, just to be sure. I DON'T KNOW! If you didn't have anything in mind, why did you ask for them? Now I have to include an instruction sheet with every item? I emailed the moderator of the site, and this was her take, paraphrased. For some people, the freecycle is like a giant game show! Be the first to ask for every item, and you are the winner! Doesn't matter if it's something you want or not. I can see a whole new reality show coming, Freecycle Hoarders. People whose houses are filled with stuff they got off the freecycle, and don't know what to do with! "But it was such a good bargain!" I didn't reply, I hit the big "D" (delete). It just goes to prove, that some old chestnuts translate well into the electronic age. "There's a sucker born every minute!" I don't know if it was me or them?!

6 Responses to “How Generous is Too Generous”

  1. mjrube94 Says:
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    That's crazy!

  2. monkeymama Says:
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    Interesting.

    I had friends complain, many years ago, that they freecycled NICE things and saw them for sale on Craigslist. My reply? "Um, yeah???"

    I think some "givers" miss the point of Freecycle. I use Freecycle for things I could not get rid of in any other fashion. Old/broken electronics, and random items. OR, if I just don't want to take the time to donate a small item (I do that no longer, now that charity comes to my front door every few weeks. I also now go to Best Buy to recycle electronics). When I first found Freecycle, I thought it was genius, since it kept so much stuff out of the landfill.

    If I wanted to give to needy people, I would go to a charity. Freecycle is NOT for giving to needy. There is no screening of recipients!

    I haven't used Freecycle in a long time - since my spouse pointed out the free section on Craigslist. It's where I put my un-donatable stuff, and it's just easier. But if I had something no one wanted, I would go to Freecycle.

    That is a crackup though. "What do I do with it?" That is so odd!!!

  3. Joan.of.the.Arch Says:
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    I use Freecycle and some things really would have hit the trash, otherwise. Like the shards of blue glass! Can you imagine I found someone who wanted them for mosaics? I had thought there might be such a person, and via Freecycle I found them!

  4. wowitsawonderfullife Says:
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    I know there are people on there that flip freecycle stuff. Sometimes I don't care who takes my stuff as long as it's gone. But the "guy" in our area who sits in front of his computer all day and will take any of my stuff drives me crazy. I just delete every response from him. We caught on guy who had 6 fake identification emails who sold stuff at the local flea market. He was banned from the site.

  5. ceejay74 Says:
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    That is so sad, but there are always people desparate to make a buck, as long as it's dishonest! LOL. I like MM's advice; if you want to give it to the needy, take it to a charity. Otherwise, if the idea of "flipping" bothers you (sure as heck bothers me), try getting a few bucks yourself on Craigslist before turning to Freecycle.

    If you just want to know something's going to get used vs. head for landfill, but don't care otherwise, Freecycle all the way. For us, we have a "free table" in our condo garage, and anything we put there will get snapped up by someone. I love how little we throw out if it's even vaguely cute or useful.

  6. fern Says:
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    it's a shame that such a good idea can be absued like this, but it's the reason i got turned off to freecycle years ago. people who said they wanted something, and with whom you made arrangements for pickup, never showed, wasting your time and patience.

    around here, there'd be no takers for broken or damaged goods; it has to be in pretty good shape.

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